How we show up- how we act- DRIVES how others respond to us, how others learn to treat us, how we will ACT in our next step, transaction, or choice. Behavior drives behavior. If people are not responding to you the way you want them to...try changing how you are showing up! If interesting trends … Continue reading Behavior Begets Behavior
A day is just a day...and come what may, at the end of the day, I will find my way. Life is a journey and full of twists and turns! Things may get thrown at you and you may get derailed. Trust in yourself and know, it is all just a journey. Walk the … Continue reading You Will Find Your Way
Why would you want to rob one of their learning opportunity? Experience is the best teacher, not succeeding the first time is an important lesson. Rescuing is enabling, not supporting. You learned your lessons! Let them learn theirs!
You do not own their failures. People own their own. Accountability is a gift that builds self-respect. If you take ownership of their failures, you will see they will begin to give you their successes. Removing one more block from the foundation of self-respect.
You will find this in those who influenced you-and in those who you influence. Your behavior will be reflected back for you.
Allowing others to make your choices gives your power away. Taking others choices away dis-empowers. Being responsible for others choices or others being responsible for yours; either way creates dysfunctional and reliant relations.